An unfinished nursing home, banners with fierce words, and a long-standing contradiction made the official WeChat of China News Network have such a title: "Nursing home = a hospital for the dead?" Don’t be old if you dare! 》

It turns out that something unpleasant happened in a residential area in Shanghai these days. The government wants to build a nursing home in the community, but it is strongly opposed by the owners. Some radical owners actually put up banners to protest, which read the words "Get out of the community in the hospital for the dead", which made people shudder.

Recently, banners such as "protesting against the construction of nursing homes in residential areas" can be seen everywhere in Xinyi Yayuan Community, Yangpu District, Shanghai. This year, a company in Shanghai prepared to transform the idle buildings in the community into public and private nursing homes, but it was strongly opposed by the community owners, and some community owners even hung up the "Dead People’s Home" and got out of the community.

Slogans against the construction of nursing homes can be seen everywhere in the community. Manager Lu, the project leader of this company, told the reporter that considering that Shanghai is getting more and more aging, Yangpu District is a traditional old industrial area with concentrated retired workers and a shortage of old-age care institutions, the company considered converting idle buildings into nursing homes last year after market research and communication with its streets. The project is expected to invest 30 million yuan, and the number of old-age beds will be about 291 after completion.

There are two main reasons for the owners’ opposition: first, it lowers the housing price of the community and affects the interests of the owners; Second, there are hospice wards and mortuaries in nursing homes, which affect the living environment and the psychology of owners. Because there is a saying among the owners that there are 1200 beds in this nursing home, there must be a morgue. They said: It is not always comfortable to open the window and see the nursing home. The street said that last year, it was considered to transform idle buildings into nursing homes. After the completion, the actual number of beds for the elderly was about 291.

After reading this news, Xiaoxin’s mind immediately came up with a scene. A high-end restaurant is crowded, but the seat next to the toilet is empty. No one wants to sit near the toilet to eat, but no one protests that the restaurant should not build this toilet, because everyone who eats will inevitably need it.

When people’s livelihood infrastructure conflicts with personal interests, what should we do? Is it true that nursing homes embodying humanistic care have no place in residential areas? If we don’t build a nursing home now, where will we live when we are old? Before answering these questions, let’s take a look at the status quo of nursing homes.

Present situation of nursing homes in China

According to the statistics of the Ministry of Civil Affairs, as of the end of March 2015, there were 31,833 registered pension service institutions in China. The total number of beds for the aged in institutions and communities reached 5.84 million, up 19.7% year-on-year, including 1.973 million beds for residential and day care in communities. At present, there are 27.5 beds for the aged per 1,000 elderly people, up 10.0% year-on-year.

With the accelerated arrival of an aging society, the living conditions, pension rights and security of the elderly have attracted increasing attention from all walks of life. Recently, in some places, cases of injury to the elderly have occurred one after another, or accidents that accidentally lead to the disability and death of the elderly have caused public concern about the security risks of the old-age service institutions.

How to solve the contradiction between the owner and the street?

The main concern of the owners is nothing more than two points:

First, I am afraid that house prices will fall. Imagine that if a residential area is equipped with a nursing home, just like a kindergarten, a vegetable market and a hotel in the residential area, this kind of welfare facilities that are convenient for the people will not let the house prices fall, but will only facilitate the owners, so this kind of worry is superfluous;

Second, the owners are worried that there are 1200 beds in nursing homes, and there will often be dead people, which will affect Feng Shui. The street clearly stated that it planned to build 291 beds, which is a reflection of the poor communication between the owners and the street. The street should have a detailed explanation and discussion with the owners’ committee, put all possible problems on the table and seek common ground while reserving differences. For example, where is the activity area of the old people? Whether the old people will disturb the people and other issues should be dealt with in advance …

Social needs of the elderly

First, why do the elderly live in nursing homes?

1) Hope to get timely nursing and medical assistance;

2) Reduce the burden of care for children and other family members;

3) Enjoy the old age;

4) Get rid of loneliness.

Second, what will be considered when living in a nursing home?

1) Location environment;

2) check-in fee. At present, the expenses paid by the elderly mainly come from their own pension, children’s sponsorship and funds for renting or selling their original houses.

3) medical conditions. Most concerned about the "first aid channel"; I hope that the medical environment will be warm and the service personalized.

4) service demand. Nursing staff should be patient and respectful; It is very important to visit and patrol regularly; Provide health care services, and organize health care and outing activities.

5) Dietary conditions. The dining environment is diversified and humanized; Varieties should be differentiated and can take care of special needs; I hope to set up a hospitality restaurant and a public kitchen.

"The distance between a bowl of soup"

Some people say that nursing homes can be built, but why should they be built in residential areas? In fact, one word is often used to choose the address of the old-age care institution-"the distance of a bowl of soup", that is to say, this bowl of soup is cooked from home and brought to the nursing home for the elderly to drink, which just doesn’t cool off. This distance is the best.

Building a nursing home in a residential area can just make the communication between children and the elderly closer. As the old saying goes, "all the virtues’s filial piety comes first". Filial piety is a precious treasure handed down by the Chinese nation for thousands of years. Who can say that he is not old? If children have time to take care of the elderly, or let them live in their own homes, this is the best state, but the reality is often unsatisfactory. Let the elderly have a sense of security in nursing homes, and focus on the long distance, and their grievances will not be so heavy, don’t you think?

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A residential area in Shanghai wants to build a nursing home. The owner pulls a banner "Home for the Dead"

Xinmin. com In recent years, Shanghai has made great efforts to develop the cause of providing for the aged. The municipal government regards adding new beds for the aged as a practical matter for the municipal government every year, and this year’s target is 7,000 beds. However, a nursing home, from planning and design, project approval to construction, acceptance and approval, and finally opening the door to welcome the elderly, is not as simple as the increase in numbers on paper, and some will encounter unexpected difficulties and even obstacles. Recently, a nursing home for ordinary elderly people in Yangpu District and Fengxian District suffered from "birth difficulties", and the reporter went to investigate it in depth.

A wall is separated by mourning and wailing?

No.3531 Zhoujiazui Road is near Longchang Road. When the reporter came here, he saw the door closed. After explaining the purpose, the doorman opened the iron gate and said that it had been shut down for more than two months. The reporter saw that there were two old buildings with five floors and six floors, and the renovation project was halfway completed, and no one was there. Across the wall, there are some shacks on one side, and a six-story husband’s house and several high-rise residential buildings on the other. High-rise residential buildings face the construction site with a banner: "Dead people’s homes get out of the community!" " I was shocked to see it.

The main objections of the owners are as follows: First, it lowers the housing price of the community and affects the immediate interests of the owners; Second, there are hospice wards and mortuaries in nursing homes, which affect the living environment and the psychology of owners.

This is the second nursing home in Yanji under construction.

The plot at No.3531 Zhoujiazui Road belongs to Shanghai Yidian Group. In the past few years, the building was leased to Shanghai Publishing and Printing College for use as a student dormitory. After the student dormitory moved out in 2013, it was vacant. Now it is managed by Shanghai Cangxin Investment Management Consulting Co., Ltd., a subsidiary of Yidian Group. Manager Lu, the person in charge of the company’s project, told the reporter that considering Shanghai’s aging degree is getting higher and higher, Yangpu District is a traditional old industrial area with concentrated retired workers and a shortage of old-age care institutions, the company considered converting idle buildings into nursing homes last year after market research and communication with its streets. There is only one public nursing home in Yanji Street, and I hope to build another one, but there is no space. The idea of Cangxin Company hit it off with them. Yangpu district government also attaches great importance to this and confirms that the nature of nursing homes is public and private. The project is expected to invest 30 million yuan, and the number of old-age beds will be about 291 after completion.

On March 20th this year, after completing all the necessary procedures, the renovation project started. However, more than a month later, residents came to the streets and governments at all levels again and again to resolutely oppose the construction of nursing homes. On May 6th, at the strong demand of residents, the renovation project had to be suspended. Yanji Street, District Civil Affairs Bureau, District Housing Management Bureau, District Diplomatic Relations Committee and other departments held many forums and coordination meetings to communicate and talk with residents, but the results were not great.

Most of the residents who oppose the construction of nursing homes are the owners of nearby favorite yayuan. This is a commercial housing community built in 2002, with more than 200 households. Walking into the community, banners such as "opposing the construction of nursing homes in residential areas" and "opposing the infringement of owners’ rights and interests" can be seen everywhere. The reporter interviewed an owner, Ms. Li, who told the reporter the main objections of the owners: First, it lowered the housing price of the community and affected the immediate interests of the owners; Second, there are hospice wards and mortuaries in nursing homes, which affect the living environment and the psychology of owners.

A resident wrote in a letter to a government department: "A wall separates us from the mortuary, but we hear the wailing and weeping of the family members of the deceased in our ears, and the polluted air in the ward is breathed in our mouths and noses … hundreds of households are within reach of death …" Because there is a saying among the owners that this nursing home has 1,200 beds, it is sure to set up a mortuary.

　　Author: Travel around the world

　　Many people think of traveling as a "luxury", but in fact, traveling doesn’t require you to spend a lot of money, and you don’t need to spend too much. You just need to walk into local life and feel the charm of a city quietly.

　　Although you can’t go where you want to go like a local tyrant, you can leave in the following eight places as long as you choose the right time.

　　-01-

　　Let’s take a walk on the streets of Chengdu.

　　"Go to the end of Yulin Road, sit at the door of the pub, and walk with me in the streets of Chengdu …" A song "Chengdu" sang this comfortable city.

　　It is the least necessary to plan to come to Chengdu. You just need to measure the city with your feet.

　　If you want to find the culture of West Shu, take a walk in Jinli. Winding courtyards, streets, waterfront, lakes and lotus ponds. . . In Jinli, there is always a place that makes you dream.

　　If you want to feel the brilliance of the poet Du Fu, go to the thatched cottage and have a look. Here, the flowing water is lingering, the bridges are connected, and the bamboo trees are hidden, which is simple and elegant and full of poetic atmosphere.

　　If you want to know about the city, take a walk in the streets. Go for a stroll, pick your ears, drink tea, be a "Chengdu person" for a day, and feel what is called "Bashi".

　　-02-

　　Go to Hangzhou to bask in the sun.

　　"There is heaven above and Suzhou and Hangzhou below", and the beauty of Hangzhou is self-evident.

　　Boating on the West Lake, the beauty of the West Lake lies in the clear water and the empty mountains on rainy days. Whether it’s rain or snow, whether it’s sunny or cloudy, whether it’s morning or evening, it can change into a scene; In spring flowers, autumn moon, summer lotus and winter snow, each has its own beauty. . .

　　When you are tired, go to Qiandao Lake and steal a lazy job. Look at the blue waves, the beautiful thousand islands, the green mountains, the deep canyons and the delicate streams, and give yourself a good vacation.

　　Or take a walk in the street, see the city full of literary flavor, and make a wish at Lingyin Temple by the way, wishing you all your wishes come true.

　　-03-

　　Go to my old house in Suzhou and make a visit.

　　Suzhou has not only the Jiangnan water town with small bridges and flowing water, but also the vast and beautiful Taihu Lake. Suzhou is changeable. It is not only the most exquisite garden in the world, but also the traditional residence with white walls and tiles.

　　But I like the alleys of Suzhou best.

　　The old alleys, tall buttonwood trees and mottled black wooden doors here have witnessed many generations of stories.

　　Come here, stroll around the alley and feel the rhythm of slow life. The flowers planted in the alley and the birds raised are all the breath of life.

　　The shouts of street stalls, the occasional willow branches sticking out of the wall, and the small bridges and flowing water around the corner. . . If I can, I’d like to walk on the bluestone road.

　　-04-

　　Go to Guilin to see the landscape of "the best in the world"

　　Guilin’s landscape is the best in the world, which is not just an expression. Rowing bamboo rafts, floating on the Lijiang River, walking between mountains and rivers like ancient poets. When the sun sets, the fishing boat sings late.

　　Go to the Lijiang River to see the peaks and peaks, the green hills floating and the reflections dancing, and the scenery on both sides of the strait is like a hundred miles splendid gallery.

　　After seeing the landscape, I will go to Huangyao Ancient Town for a few days. Walking on the stone road, the surrounding houses still retain the original charm, and the blue and white brick walls and clean stone slabs give people a sense of crossing the Qingming Festival.

　　Unlike the "prosperity" of other ancient towns, it only has the taste of ordinary street life.

　　-05-

　　Go to Luoyang to see the beauty of "moving the capital"

　　"Only the peony is a true national color, and the capital moves when it blooms." Luoyang is an ancient capital with cultural background, which straddles both sides of the middle reaches of the Yellow River, and is known as the "hinterland of Kyushu" because it is "in the world".

　　The white horse temple is full of Buddha’s sound, red lacquer columns and exquisite forehead painting. The Longmen Grottoes are grand and magnificent, which vividly expresses the ideal artistic conception of the Buddhist world, which is full of peaceful colors.

　　The "Millennium Imperial Capital" is by no means a hollow reputation.

　　If you don’t like the prosperity of the city, go to Laojun Mountain to watch the sea of clouds surge. Looking around, the clouds cover thousands of miles and the fog locks the peaks. Just like standing in the blue sea of Wang Yang, Cuifeng looms as if it were still.

　　-06-

　　Go to Guizhou to see the most primitive beauty.

　　Shan Zhinan, the capital of mountain countries and the city of forests, is a unique summer resort. Jiaxiu Building Group, snacks all over the street, skyscrapers, it is truly a small southwest Hong Kong.

　　There are too many surprises waiting for us in Guizhou.

　　The rolling white waves of Huangguoshu Waterfall pour down, and the water potential is huge and amazing; The conference capital, the hometown of maojiu, the red revolutionary culture shines in the green mountains and green waters, and every step here is history.

　　By the way, at night, thousands of Miao villages in Xijiang have become an ocean of lights. You must go and see them once and feel the enthusiasm of the nation.

　　-07-

　　Go to Changsha for a bowl of rice noodles.

　　Changsha is a paradise for eating goods. The taste of shrimp is spicy, the stinky tofu is tender in the outside, and the Changsha rice noodles with big bones are boiled into soup heads. In short, there is always a kind of food in Changsha that can keep your stomach.

　　Be sure to take a walk on the streets of Changsha in the middle of the night. The guests at the street food stalls are in an endless stream, and the aroma is overflowing. It is beautiful to have a glass of beer with all kinds of snacks.

　　If you are tired of shopping, go to Meixihu Grand Theatre to watch a wonderful musical or opera and enjoy an audio-visual feast. Let alone how nourishing this life is.

　　-08-

　　Go to Huizhou to feel poetic and picturesque.

　　Speaking of Huizhou, the first reaction in everyone’s mind is Anhui. But in fact, Huizhou is the collective name of Shexian, yi county, Xiuning, Qimen, Jixi and Wuyuan.

　　And the most famous one should belong to Wuyuan. This place is famous for a piece of rape. If Huizhou is an ink painting, Wuyuan must be a little color added to the ink painting.

　　It is said that Huizhou’s "eight-and-a-half mountains, one field, half waterways and manor" is true. When you come here, the yellow and green between the white walls and blue tiles are like the scenes in ancient paintings.

　　In the morning, the smoke is filled, the bridges are flowing, and thousands of acres of terraced rape flowers bloom at the same time, all over the mountains, like a new rural pastoral picture, the breeze is blowing, and the business is full.

　　Think about whether you are too unkind to yourself at ordinary times, and love others more than yourself. Come to think of it, if you don’t entertain yourself, who can you expect to be good to yourself?

　　It is better to love yourself, travel, see the outside world and live your own life.

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　　CCTV News:(Reporter Di Chenchen Wang Jiaying) "From the top of the forehead to the eyebrows, from the eyebrows to the nose, from the nose to the chin, each accounting for 1/3. The width of the face is measured by the width of the eyes and divided into 5 equal parts."

　　Sheng Nan drew a few times in front of the mirror, and all three courts and five eyes met the aesthetic standards. "Am I really ugly?"

　　Faced with the delicate and confident appearance of old classmates whom I haven’t seen for several years, Sheng Nan, who has been dressed as a tomboy and laughing for more than 20 years, began to pay attention to "Yan value" under a series of stimuli.

　　The heat in August seems to have brought Sheng Nan a little anxiety. She classified herself as "unsightly". When dieting and exercise still failed, she thought of the most convenient way: plastic surgery. This previously unthinkable behavior was put on the agenda.

　　It’s not nine o’clock in the morning, and people are coming and going in the corridor of the outpatient building of the plastic surgery hospital. What surprised Sheng Nan even more was that she was not the youngest among the students in their early twenties.

　　Linlin, a cosmetic consultant in 1993, worked for more than two years. She showed Sheng Nan the case with an iPad, and conveniently took out a mirror from the pocket of her pink gown. In the mirror, Sheng Nan’s pores were clearly visible.

　　According to Linlin, a cosmetic consultant, the public’s concept of medical beauty has already changed.

　　"In the past, women in their 30 s and 40 s were afraid to let their families know when they cut their double eyelids and made a face. They were all secretive when they walked on the road; Now I even have a husband to accompany me, and some projects will be done together. In the past, younger people would do some basic projects behind their parents’ backs. Now there are many parents accompanying them, and they will not reject large-scale medical beauty projects. "

　　In less than a month, Sheng Nan has been able to generously admit to her friends that she has had plastic surgery. In her opinion, young people of her generation prefer to refer to these behaviors collectively as — — "medical beauty" (medical beauty).

　　"Being ugly makes me feel worse than being single."

　　Young faces like Sheng Nan are not uncommon in plastic surgery hospitals. Especially after the summer vacation, the number of students admitted to the hospital increased significantly.

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　　"The student group is special and needs the support of family members." Luan Jie, vice president of Plastic Surgery Hospital of China Academy of Medical Sciences, said.

　　In cosmetic surgery, face-to-face consultation is very important. This link will determine whether it is suitable for fine-tuning and the preliminary plan of surgery. "Many times parents accompany their children to face-to-face consultation, and the two sides may have different opinions on specific details. Therefore, we usually advise parents and children to communicate fully, and the surgery can only be confirmed after both parties agree. "

　　Lin Xiao did this rhinoplasty operation without telling her family. This is not the first time she has operated. After the third nose repair, the change was particularly obvious because it was European-style, like a different person. "My parents saw it and wouldn’t even let me see my grandparents, for fear that they couldn’t accept the stimulation."

　　When she was a child, Lin Xiao was very fat, so she was isolated. She was once pointed at and scolded by a person in the street, "a particularly ugly word", and she didn’t know how to deal with it except to go away quickly. From then on, she began to lose weight crazily, and the height of 1.7 meters was just as thin as 80 pounds. "Seriously, after losing weight, although she is not ugly and fat, she is still an ordinary person, which is too far from those counterattack posts on the Internet and too far from what I expected." Lin Xiao looked at a bunch of suitors around other girls. She lost so much weight but still didn’t change anything, so she moved the idea of plastic surgery.

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　　She cut her double eyelids first, then moved her nose. She felt that her nose was not satisfied, so she repaired it twice. She also went to South Korea to make a three-piece outline, and her double eyelids were readjusted. Counting the face-lifting needle and hyaluronic acid, Lin Xiao was already regarded as the "old Jianghu" in the plastic surgery industry.

　　"Generally, I am satisfied, but of course there are times when I am not satisfied." Lin Xiao didn’t worry about the risk of plastic surgery, the wound couldn’t heal, the flesh and blood couldn’t grow, and it might really be disfigured. During the operation in Korea, she watched the girls covered in gauze, unable to move, and had to insert a catheter for several days, which was really scary. However, with the increase in the number of plastic surgery, Lin Xiao became more and more indifferent. "Everyone is fine. I have experienced it so many times. Anyway, now that medical beauty is so developed, I will adjust it if it doesn’t look good."

　　"After all, ugliness is terrible!" Because the appearance has been treated unfairly and tasted the sweetness of good-looking, Lin Xiao can no longer be willing to lose these treatments. "Under the same working ability, the company will definitely choose good-looking rather than ugly. And people will be very tolerant of good-looking people, even if they make mistakes, they can be forgiven. For ugly people, they will say, you have grown like this, don’t you work hard? Still making mistakes? "

　　"A gamble of beauty seekers"

　　Disassembly of the word "Yan value": Yan, appearance; Value, numerical value Invisible, the face value is measured and compared.

　　Daniel Homer, an American labor economist, pointed out in his article Yan value and labor market that there are both ugly fines and Yan value bonuses in society, and people with high Yan value can get more salary and opportunities.

　　This concept has become the driving force for some people to accept plastic surgery.

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　　Gege, who is a sophomore, has undergone several cosmetic operations, and she knows the way of plastic surgery hospital very well. Which doctor is good at eye synthesis, which one can cut bones and which one is the most natural for lip augmentation … … These experiences are the result of her practice.

　　"Some black institutions have deep routines, which will induce consumers. Many people who are addicted to cosmetic surgery are more dependent on the instigation of cosmetic surgery institutions besides the dependence on cosmetic surgery itself." What is even more inconceivable is that "the person who will be double eyelid surgery for you may start his career after only three days of study".

　　Gege feels that most of the time cosmetic surgery is an adventure. "I don’t know what I will be like, and it is impossible to predict whether it is good or bad." If you don’t want to into the pit, you have to do your homework.

　　In the waiting area of outpatient surgery in plastic surgery hospital, Gege waited for surgery accompanied by her mother. "Today, I will bury the thread and make a double eyelid. I don’t want to move other parts, such as a high nose, big eyes, a pointed chin and a plump forehead. That’s it ‘ Net red face ’ Well, that’s not me. " Referring to why I want plastic surgery, "I am a part-time graphic model. In this line, I rarely don’t move my knife. Only when I am more beautiful can I have better resources."

　　Unlike Gege, Sheng Nan is a little white in the field of cosmetic surgery. Although she doesn’t shy away from cosmetic surgery, Sheng Nan admits that she had backed out before the operation. "When I really lie in the hospital bed and the long needle is aimed at myself, my heart is still tight, silently praying that something bad will not happen."

　　During the facial recovery period, Sheng Nan felt that she had not changed much from the original, but after all this, she thought clearly that beauty depends on her heart.

　　In Sheng Nan’s sister’s view, Sheng Nan’s facial features are not bad, but she should pay attention to dressing. "Now the makeup technology is so strong, there is really no need for plastic surgery."

　　Before that, my sister told Sheng Nan that some people with congenital facial deformities would go to plastic surgery hospitals and rely on medical technology to trim their faces. For these people, plastic surgery is a "timely help", but it is not advisable to expect to change their fate just to improve their looks.

　　"Forced plastic surgery" still owes more than 40,000 yuan in loans.

　　If it is your right to take the initiative to choose cosmetic surgery, it is ridiculous to be forced to have cosmetic surgery.

　　Ms. Liu was attracted by an advertisement for "assistant to the general manager": the monthly salary was 12,000 to 20,000, and no work experience was needed. Ms. Liu, the HR director of the recruitment company, interviewed in the conference room on the fifth floor of a hotel outside the South Third Ring Road in Beijing.

　　"At that time, I decided to stay as his assistant, and then arranged for someone to take me to do a facial lift."

　　A staff member named "Qian Meng" said that Mr. Shen’s assistant is the facade of the company, so it is necessary to carry out facial lifting and plastic surgery. The expenses will be paid in advance by the parties, and eventually the company will pay.

　　With confusion, Ms. Liu was taken to a hospital near the Fifth Ring Road in northwest Beijing, and then the hospital gave her a plastic surgery plan to "do facial filling and face-lifting needles on her forehead and temples", which cost more than 40,000 yuan. "Meng Meng" was revealed to Ms. Liu, because "Mr. Shen has cooperated with this hospital and they have a good relationship, so we came to this hospital."

　　Considering that one month after work, she will earn 10,000 to 20,000 yuan, and Ms. Liu will not care about these conditions. Later, "Meng Meng" operated Ms. Liu’s mobile phone and applied for a small loan of more than 40,000 yuan for cosmetic expenses.

　　The whole operation lasted for several hours, and Ms. Liu kept vomiting after the operation. She found that in addition to the passive knife on her face, she also had injuries on her thighs, and a large piece of meat was missing from her thighs. "It looks terrible, but the dean of the operation said it was all like this."

　　After so many twists and turns, Ms. Liu wanted to be the assistant of General Shen when she recovered. During this time, the company’s people have also kept in touch with Ms. Liu, asking questions. But when she reported to the new company, she was told that Mr. Shen had left.

　　"Shen always told me, I’m sorry, I have a little situation here, and I’m going to leave without pay. He said that if I am on the job, the money for cosmetic surgery can be directly given to you, but I am not on the job, and I still owe a debt myself. I have no choice. "

　　Seeing that the job is going to be yellow, "Manager Shen" said that she can be recommended to another "Manager Yao" in the company.

　　After a while, another general manager came. "He told me directly. It’s not the same with manager Shen here. I can make money here. I can guarantee that you can earn hundreds of dollars a month. But you have to be particularly open. " Ms. Liu further asked, "What does openness mean?" "It’s just that some customers need to accompany them to drink, which is very easy."

　　Ms. Liu refused the company’s request. After knowing it, she felt that she had fallen into a recruitment trap, and the loan of more than 40,000 yuan for cosmetic surgery could only be repaid slowly by herself.

　　(At the request of the interviewee, all the texts are pseudonyms.)