City Hot News reported that after "social phobia" and "social cow disease", a new word in social series-"social self-consciousness" became popular, and was praised by netizens as the most comfortable and polite group of people in social activities.

What is "social consciousness"? According to the reporter’s inquiry, it actually means that when getting along with others, the words and actions are just right, and there is proper limit, which does not cause trouble to others.

Performance 1: Don’t disturb others in public.

Su Ming, a 28-year-old logistics worker, lives in Dashiba. She feels that she belongs to the "social self-consciousness" group. The most important point is the behavior in public.

Su Ming, for example, if he goes to see a movie or a concert, his mobile phone will be turned to mute, and he will not take it out all the time in the middle, which will affect the viewing experience of others; In addition, when you take public transportation, you won’t play videos outside, and you will reply to the message first, because direct phone calls are likely to disturb other passengers; And when you take the elevator, you will never take out the food with strong smell, such as steamed stuffed bun and baked wheat cake …

Su Ming believes that the so-called "social consciousness" is actually a small move, but it can reduce the disturbance to others.

Performance 2: The promised things must be fulfilled.

Zhou Yi, a 30-year-old marketing worker, believes that fulfilling promises is the foundation of social consciousness.

Zhou Yi said that he had some friends who were "socially inept". Although they were good at getting along with others, they were even more responsible for the party. However, there is a problem that talking and doing things are not reliable, and the promised things are forgotten after they are finished. "Such people are just impromptu friendships, and it is difficult for people to trust and make friends."

Zhou Yi said that if we look at the friends who have really settled down around us, we must keep our words, and the promised things will be fulfilled and honored. "Adult communication, security and trust are the most important things."

Performance 3: Don’t force questions and listen when chatting.

Miss Jiang is a new media editor. She is 27 years old and single. She believes that "socially conscious" people must be able to chat.

Every time she attends a family dinner or a class reunion, someone always brings the topic to "older young women" and feels uncomfortable all over.

For example, when I went back to my hometown on National Day this year, several aunts and aunts at home chatted and began to analyze sentence by sentence why Miss Jiang was single for so many years. Some say that Miss Jiang’s personality is too strong, some say that Miss Jiang lacks femininity, and some say that Miss Jiang’s circle is too small …

"That kind of feeling is like a thorn in the back, like a sore throat, like sitting on pins and needles." Miss Jiang believes that "socially conscious" people should be like themselves. If they touch on topics that the other party doesn’t want to talk about, they should avoid them in time. In addition, you should also know how to listen and not interrupt others.

Performance 4: The private sector should also be self-disciplined.

Jia Jia, a 31-year-old parenting blogger, feels that social consciousness is not limited to leaving home. Even when you are at home, you should pay attention and be conscious.

For example, the children upstairs always like to beat the ball or jump rope at home, which brings great trouble to Jiajia and her family. Another example is a neighbor on the same floor. Shoe cabinets, bicycles and trolleys are all thrown in the corridor, which not only occupies space, but also affects aesthetics.

Jia Jia said, including getting along with family members, roommates and others, we should also maintain social consciousness, control our emotions, respect each other’s living habits, and at the same time, don’t leave the worst temper to the closest relatives.

Netizen voice: I hope more and more people have "social consciousness"

@ Pygmalion: If social consciousness, social phobia and social arrogance are on the same axis. Social phobia will be on the far left, social arrogance will be on the far right, and social consciousness will be in the middle. They are not as speechless as social fears, nor as emmm…… as social cows … All in all, people with social consciousness will feel more comfortable getting along with them than social fears and social cows.

@ Yi Jia said: If more people can have social consciousness, don’t crowd out other people’s public space. Then our world may reduce many unnecessary quarrels and irritability.

@ 京京京京: Sometimes you should clearly tell others your boundaries, otherwise you will depend on yourself.

@ Lele: No matter how good the relationship is, you should be socially conscious. For example, I once had a best friend, who always took advantage of me financially. I was never invited to dinner and came to my house to help myself. Over time, I alienated her.

@ Fu Kang ‘ai Entertainment: In order to praise those who consciously abide by social etiquette, behave themselves and be full of proper limit, the glorious title of "social consciousness disorder" came into being quietly.

In fact, in the final analysis, "social self-consciousness" is a sense of proper limit and boundary in communication with people. Some people have a strong sense of boundary and will not infringe on others’ boundaries; Some people have no sense of boundaries at all, and they are ready to jump in your boundaries.

In addition to strangers in public places, we will also be violated by some acquaintances in our daily life, such as questioning care, asking for help without asking, helping without telling, and so on. Everyone needs to pay attention to how to grasp the sense of proportion and establish a sense of boundary in communication with others.

Comments: "Social consciousness" can also be cultivated.

Tan Gangqiang, executive director of Chongqing Social Psychology Association: In fact, "social consciousness" is not only the embodiment of education and quality, but also the support of emotional intelligence and social wisdom. Even need to rely on some acquired efforts to develop-

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Know yourself. First of all, we must be "socially conscious", and we must be self-aware of our own language and behavior, and understand whether our words and deeds will cause trouble to others.

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Be self-disciplined Know how to control your own behavior, and don’t make behaviors that affect others or the public because you are comfortable for a while.

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Be kind. People who are kind and well-intentioned will care about the emotions of others, will not say hurtful words, and will do harm to others.

Wang Wei, Chief Reporter of Urban Hot News-Xiang Yu

Original title: Have you got the comfortable "social consciousness"?

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　　Xinhua News Agency, Beijing, February 14th Question: The largest range of rain and snow weather since winter. The rainy weather in the south will continue for a week.

　　Xinhua News Agency reporter Gao Jing, Hu Lu

　　On February 14th, tourists visited the Forbidden City in Beijing in the snow. On that day, it snowed in Beijing, and a large number of tourists came to the Forbidden City to enjoy the snow. Xinhua News Agency reporter Luo Xiaoguang photo

　　Snowflakes are fluttering in the north and rainy in the south. On the 14th, the largest range of rain and snow weather since winter came online. What is the reason for the rain and snow? What will the weather be like in the future? The reporter interviewed relevant experts.

　　The snowfall in the north has a large impact range and strong intensity.

　　Fang Yi, chief forecaster of the Central Meteorological Observatory, said that around the 14th, the snowfall in the north was generally characterized by a large impact range and strong intensity, which was the largest and strongest snowfall in North China since winter. There are small to medium snow or sleet in central Inner Mongolia, Hebei, Beijing, Tianjin, Henan and other places, which gradually weakens after nightfall that day. Snowfall in Liaoning, Shandong and eastern Inner Mongolia will last until the morning or day of the 15th.

　　Just two days ago, the snowfall on the 12 th has already surprised many small partners in the north. It is also snowing, but the snow on the 14th is somewhat different from that of the previous days.

　　Fang Yi pointed out that the difference between the two snowfall processes lies in the different sources of cold air and water vapor. This round of snowfall is due to the continuous eastward movement of cold air in northern Xinjiang and southward along the northwest road. Before the influence of cold air, the ground inverted trough and the low-level southerly wind were significantly strengthened, which transported the warm and humid airflow from the south to the north, which was beneficial to the formation of snowfall in Huanghuai area of North China. On the 12th, the snowfall process was mainly caused by the return of cold air from the East Road. In addition, there was an easterly wind in Bohai Sea to transport water vapor, which led to snowfall in Huanghuai area of North China.

　　Strictly speaking, the snow on the 14th was the third snowfall in Beijing recently. Not only that, since February, there has been obvious snowfall in many places in the north, including Beijing.

　　Chen Lijuan, chief of the Climate Prediction Office of the National Climate Center, said that the precipitation situation is closely related to the coordination of cold air activities, water vapor transport and other conditions. In February, there were two strong cold air processes affecting China. At the same time, the subtropical high in the western Pacific is stronger than normal, and it is north by west, which leads a lot of water vapor from the northwest Pacific and the South China Sea to be transported to China, especially to the north of the Yangtze River, where it merges with the cold air guided by the trough from Mongolia to Northeast Asia, forming favorable conditions for precipitation in the north. Because the temperature is obviously lower than normal, it appears in the form of snowfall.

　　The continuous rain in the south has lasted for a week.

　　Since February 7th, there has been continuous rainy weather in southern China for one week. Fang Yi said that due to the strong and stable subtropical high, the south branch trough is more active, the low trough keeps moving eastward, and the warm and humid airflow is strong, resulting in continuous rainy weather in the south.

　　He said that in the coming week, there will be continuous rainy weather in Jiangnan, South China, Jianghuai, Jianghan, Chongqing and Guizhou. In particular, it should be noted that from 17th to 18th, heavy rain may occur in parts of central and western South China and central and western South China, and the possible secondary disasters should be prevented in time.

　　Fang Yi pointed out that for the northern region, Xinjiang, Tibet, Qinghai and other places will have small to medium snow, local heavy snow or blizzard from 14th to 16th. Around the 18th, there will be a snowfall mainly with light snow in south-central North China, Huanghuai and other places, and moderate to heavy snow may occur in some areas of Huanghuai.

　　Chen Lijuan said that from December 1, 2018 to February 13, 2019, the national precipitation was 29% higher than the normal average, but the spatial distribution was extremely uneven. The eastern region was "less in the north and south, more in the middle", that is, less in the northeast, north China and eastern South China, but more in Jianghuai and Jiangnan, and more in the western region as a whole.

　　Ruixue is a good year, especially for the northern region. Because of less precipitation in the early stage, snowfall is very beneficial to alleviate drought and agricultural production. However, the continuous rainy weather in the southern region will affect the growth of crops to a certain extent.

　　The global climate is closely related, and El Ni? o "adds fuel to the fire"

　　Looking around the world, not only has there been precipitation in many places in China recently, but there have also been frequent snowstorms in Europe and the United States.

　　Chen Lijuan pointed out that Europe, influenced by the Atlantic warm current, belongs to a temperate maritime climate, and the water vapor conditions are still abundant in winter, which is favorable for precipitation. If cold air from the polar regions moves southward, it is easy to form snowfall. Influenced by the water vapor transport conditions in the western Atlantic Ocean and the eastern Pacific Ocean, the United States is also prone to heavy snowfall when it encounters strong cold air activities. From January 26 to 30, the polar vortex invaded the United States southward, and two-thirds of the United States suffered from extremely cold weather, and the temperature dropped to the lowest in many years.

　　She said that from the global climate background, since September 2018, the tropical Middle East Pacific has entered an El Ni? o state, which will form an El Ni? o event, which is conducive to transporting more tropical ocean water vapor to the southern United States. El Nino event has no direct contribution to the cold wave in North America, but when the cold wave occurs, if more water vapor is transported to the mainland of the United States, it will easily lead to heavy snowfall, thus aggravating the disaster and influence of cold wave activities.

　　At the same time, when El Ni? o occurs, it is beneficial to transport more water vapor from the western Pacific Ocean and the South China Sea to China’s land areas, creating conditions for precipitation in the eastern part of China, and cooperating with the process and intensity of cold air activity in the middle and high latitudes, causing rainfall or snowfall in different parts of China.