City Hot News reported that after "social phobia" and "social cow disease", a new word in social series-"social self-consciousness" became popular, and was praised by netizens as the most comfortable and polite group of people in social activities.

What is "social consciousness"? According to the reporter’s inquiry, it actually means that when getting along with others, the words and actions are just right, and there is proper limit, which does not cause trouble to others.

Performance 1: Don’t disturb others in public.

Su Ming, a 28-year-old logistics worker, lives in Dashiba. She feels that she belongs to the "social self-consciousness" group. The most important point is the behavior in public.

Su Ming, for example, if he goes to see a movie or a concert, his mobile phone will be turned to mute, and he will not take it out all the time in the middle, which will affect the viewing experience of others; In addition, when you take public transportation, you won’t play videos outside, and you will reply to the message first, because direct phone calls are likely to disturb other passengers; And when you take the elevator, you will never take out the food with strong smell, such as steamed stuffed bun and baked wheat cake …

Su Ming believes that the so-called "social consciousness" is actually a small move, but it can reduce the disturbance to others.

Performance 2: The promised things must be fulfilled.

Zhou Yi, a 30-year-old marketing worker, believes that fulfilling promises is the foundation of social consciousness.

Zhou Yi said that he had some friends who were "socially inept". Although they were good at getting along with others, they were even more responsible for the party. However, there is a problem that talking and doing things are not reliable, and the promised things are forgotten after they are finished. "Such people are just impromptu friendships, and it is difficult for people to trust and make friends."

Zhou Yi said that if we look at the friends who have really settled down around us, we must keep our words, and the promised things will be fulfilled and honored. "Adult communication, security and trust are the most important things."

Performance 3: Don’t force questions and listen when chatting.

Miss Jiang is a new media editor. She is 27 years old and single. She believes that "socially conscious" people must be able to chat.

Every time she attends a family dinner or a class reunion, someone always brings the topic to "older young women" and feels uncomfortable all over.

For example, when I went back to my hometown on National Day this year, several aunts and aunts at home chatted and began to analyze sentence by sentence why Miss Jiang was single for so many years. Some say that Miss Jiang’s personality is too strong, some say that Miss Jiang lacks femininity, and some say that Miss Jiang’s circle is too small …

"That kind of feeling is like a thorn in the back, like a sore throat, like sitting on pins and needles." Miss Jiang believes that "socially conscious" people should be like themselves. If they touch on topics that the other party doesn’t want to talk about, they should avoid them in time. In addition, you should also know how to listen and not interrupt others.

Performance 4: The private sector should also be self-disciplined.

Jia Jia, a 31-year-old parenting blogger, feels that social consciousness is not limited to leaving home. Even when you are at home, you should pay attention and be conscious.

For example, the children upstairs always like to beat the ball or jump rope at home, which brings great trouble to Jiajia and her family. Another example is a neighbor on the same floor. Shoe cabinets, bicycles and trolleys are all thrown in the corridor, which not only occupies space, but also affects aesthetics.

Jia Jia said, including getting along with family members, roommates and others, we should also maintain social consciousness, control our emotions, respect each other’s living habits, and at the same time, don’t leave the worst temper to the closest relatives.

Netizen voice: I hope more and more people have "social consciousness"

@ Pygmalion: If social consciousness, social phobia and social arrogance are on the same axis. Social phobia will be on the far left, social arrogance will be on the far right, and social consciousness will be in the middle. They are not as speechless as social fears, nor as emmm…… as social cows … All in all, people with social consciousness will feel more comfortable getting along with them than social fears and social cows.

@ Yi Jia said: If more people can have social consciousness, don’t crowd out other people’s public space. Then our world may reduce many unnecessary quarrels and irritability.

@ 京京京京: Sometimes you should clearly tell others your boundaries, otherwise you will depend on yourself.

@ Lele: No matter how good the relationship is, you should be socially conscious. For example, I once had a best friend, who always took advantage of me financially. I was never invited to dinner and came to my house to help myself. Over time, I alienated her.

@ Fu Kang ‘ai Entertainment: In order to praise those who consciously abide by social etiquette, behave themselves and be full of proper limit, the glorious title of "social consciousness disorder" came into being quietly.

In fact, in the final analysis, "social self-consciousness" is a sense of proper limit and boundary in communication with people. Some people have a strong sense of boundary and will not infringe on others’ boundaries; Some people have no sense of boundaries at all, and they are ready to jump in your boundaries.

In addition to strangers in public places, we will also be violated by some acquaintances in our daily life, such as questioning care, asking for help without asking, helping without telling, and so on. Everyone needs to pay attention to how to grasp the sense of proportion and establish a sense of boundary in communication with others.

Comments: "Social consciousness" can also be cultivated.

Tan Gangqiang, executive director of Chongqing Social Psychology Association: In fact, "social consciousness" is not only the embodiment of education and quality, but also the support of emotional intelligence and social wisdom. Even need to rely on some acquired efforts to develop-

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Know yourself. First of all, we must be "socially conscious", and we must be self-aware of our own language and behavior, and understand whether our words and deeds will cause trouble to others.

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Be self-disciplined Know how to control your own behavior, and don’t make behaviors that affect others or the public because you are comfortable for a while.

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Be kind. People who are kind and well-intentioned will care about the emotions of others, will not say hurtful words, and will do harm to others.

Wang Wei, Chief Reporter of Urban Hot News-Xiang Yu

Original title: Have you got the comfortable "social consciousness"?

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????□ Legal Daily reporter Pu Xiaolei

????Do I need to register for business if I sell my own agricultural and sideline products on the e-commerce platform?

????Who will bear the risks and responsibilities in commodity transportation?

????How to solve the problem of unfair trading behavior of operators in the e-commerce platform?

????How to solve the problem that it is difficult for consumers to report complaints and obtain evidence?

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????All these questions can be answered in the second draft of the draft e-commerce law submitted to the 30th session of the 12th the National People’s Congress Standing Committee (NPCSC) for deliberation today.

??? Exemption from further relaxation of industrial and commercial registration scope

????Paragraph 1 of Article 12 of the first draft stipulates that e-commerce operators shall handle industrial and commercial registration according to law. However, there is no need to obtain permission in accordance with the law to provide labor services with personal skills, cottage industry, self-production and marketing of agricultural products, and there is no need for industrial and commercial registration in accordance with laws and regulations. The specific measures shall be formulated by the State Council.

????In this regard, there are two opinions: one opinion is that the scope of exemption from industrial and commercial registration is too narrow, which is not conducive to the development of e-commerce. Another view is that the draft is generally consistent with the provisions of the measures for investigating unlicensed business recently promulgated and implemented in the State Council. At present, industrial and commercial registration and tax registration have been merged, and one photo and one yard are implemented. Industrial and commercial registration is the basis of tax collection and management, and industrial and commercial registration should be unified online and offline.

????After research, the Law Committee suggested that the above provisions be amended as follows: E-commerce operators should handle industrial and commercial registration according to law. However, sales of self-produced agricultural and sideline products, sales of household handicraft products, personal use of their own skills to engage in convenient labor services activities that do not require permission according to law, and industrial and commercial registration is not required according to laws and administrative regulations.

??? E-commerce operators shall not fabricate user evaluations.

????Some members of the Standing Committee, local governments, departments and the public suggested further strengthening the obligations of e-commerce operators, especially platform operators, and strengthening the protection of consumers’ rights and interests.

????After research, the Law Committee proposes to add the following provisions:

????E-commerce operators shall not infringe consumers’ right to know by means of false propaganda, fictitious transactions, fabricated user evaluations, etc.

????E-commerce operators shall deliver goods or services to consumers in the way and within the time limit promised or agreed with consumers, and bear the risks and responsibilities in the transportation of goods. However, unless the consumer and the e-commerce operator agree to choose another express logistics service provider.

????E-commerce operators shall clearly indicate the methods and procedures for users to cancel, and shall not set unreasonable conditions for users to cancel.

????E-commerce platform operators shall bear the responsibilities of commodity sellers or service providers according to law for commodity transactions or service transactions marked as self-operated businesses.

????E-commerce platform operators should display search results to consumers in various ways according to the price, sales volume and credit level of goods or services; For the goods or services ranked by bidding, "advertising" shall be clearly marked.

??? Platform operators shall not charge unreasonable fees.

????Some members of the Standing Committee, enterprises, experts and the public suggested that the relevant provisions of the draft should be improved in view of the unreasonable service agreements and trading rules used by e-commerce platforms to implement unfair trading behaviors against operators in the platform.

????After study, the Law Committee recommends the following amendments:

????In article 23 of the first draft, the provision that operators of e-commerce platforms should publicly solicit opinions when modifying the platform service agreement and publicize the modified contents in advance is added.

????Item 5 of Article 55 of the first draft is amended as follows: Operators of e-commerce platforms shall not unreasonably restrict or attach unreasonable trading conditions to the transactions and transaction prices of operators within the platform by means of service agreements and trading rules, or charge unreasonable fees to operators within the platform.

??? Strengthen the intellectual property protection responsibility of platform operators

????Article 53 of the first draft stipulates that if the operators in the e-commerce platform "know" that they infringe intellectual property rights, they shall take necessary measures such as deletion according to law.

????Some members of the Standing Committee, departments, enterprises and experts suggested further strengthening the intellectual property protection responsibility of platform operators.

????After research, the Law Committee suggested that the above provisions should be amended as follows: if the operators of e-commerce platforms know or should know that the operators in the platforms infringe intellectual property rights, they should take necessary measures such as deleting, shielding, disconnecting links, terminating transactions and services; If necessary measures are not taken, they shall be jointly and severally liable with the infringer. At the same time, in Article 54 of the first draft, it is added that if the operator of the e-commerce platform fails to take necessary measures in time after receiving the notice of infringement of intellectual property rights by the operators in the platform, it shall be jointly and severally liable for the expanded damage and the operators in the platform.

??? Operators shall promptly accept and handle complaints.

????Some members of the Standing Committee, local authorities, experts, and the public suggested that it is difficult for consumers to report complaints and obtain evidence in practice, and further improve the norms for handling disputes in e-commerce.

????After research, the Law Committee suggested that "e-commerce dispute settlement" should be a separate chapter, and the following provisions should be added:

????E-commerce operators should establish a convenient and effective complaint and reporting mechanism, disclose information such as complaint and reporting methods, and promptly accept and handle complaints and reports.

????In e-commerce dispute handling, e-commerce operators should provide original contracts and transaction records. If the people’s court, the arbitration institution or the relevant authorities are unable to ascertain the facts because the e-commerce operators have lost, forged, tampered with, destroyed, concealed or refused to provide the above information, the e-commerce operators shall bear corresponding legal responsibilities.